I took some bad advice and attempted briefly to approach life and relationships like a guy. What this means in general terms (to those who were advising, and possibly equally benefiting) is to approach sex as simply sex - with no strings attached, enjoy it for the evening, and consider it something to tap into when needed, carnal, simple, fulfilling. Because, as many a male friend of mine suggested, it's just sex.
Well, as it turns out - sex is not "just" anything. It's actually an emotional imperative, a definition, an expression of closeness, and when we let you into our bodies, we must respect that there is nothing about it that's "just" anything. It's a simple fact of biology - I'm not a no strings attached woman and I don't think there are many of those out there.
I am a romantic, I am passionate, I like sunsets, feeling safe in your arms, staring at the stars, watching the ocean together, and I like the fire. You may be my current muse, you may be my lover, or you may someday be my husband, but you will be my something. You won't be "just" anything. There is nothing unattached about the tethers of a night together and I cannot pretend that it will ever work for me. I'm not alone - most women feel much the same.
So yes - it's true. We women can get laid any night of the week if we want to, but what we really want - is for you to fall in love with us, because every time we are there - exposed, vulnerable, and divinely feminine in our exchange, we are falling a little bit in love with you and those are the heart strings to which we will always remain attached.