Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Day 23 - Abandoning the little girl (Yes I love kittens, curves, & I am absolutely a Democrat)

Nov 2, 2010

OK new guys who might come into my life in the future, let's be clear on a few things. Unlike the last time around when I pretended to be something I wasn't, gave more than I should have, and became malleable to the male ego because that's what a woman should do, this time I'm just not going to pretend for your sake that I'm anything but who I am. If you don't like me, the whole me, I'm not going to change. You wouldn't so why should I?

Yep, I have cats - two ridiculously large maine coon cats that I didn't ever mean to really have, and yes they were both brought into my life by past men, but for better or worse - these monsters live in my house and I am responsible for them. I let them sleep on my bed, and I don't care if you are allergic. I totally am and I deal with it.

I have a pretty hard time ever saying no. Don't take advantage of it! Don't realize that because it makes me feel good to give you should just take take take and not give in return. You can count on me to be there for you and I expect you to be my friend and be there for me. Eventually even though I pretend it doesn't matter, it will. I need hugs and to be cared for.

Nope, I am not that interested in being friends with your mother. I have my own complicated family relationships and that's plenty for me. I will however enjoy hearing about your family, listening, sharing ideas, and even on the occasional vacation spending days together, but it is your family and as screwed up as mine is - I don't need a replacement.

I love action movies and princess movies and am pretty sure I am a princess superhero. Get over it - I live in a movie in my head, am silly, creative, and playful.

I have a hot body and boys like me. I find it fun and don't anticipate ever being less attractive again even if it intimidates you. If I'm too hot for your ego - go to the freaking gym please! My sign is Caution Curves Ahead - That isn't changing!

Lastly, I am a total hippy democrat and it's 100% based on social issues. I absolutely adore gay people and am a christened fairy princess, I fight vigorously for women's equality, believe in affirmative action, public education, and social policy. I despise the small minded right wing faux christian hate contingency in America and am happy to be a gay loving liberal Catholic myself. Yep, I totally agree that our fiscal policies are a complete disaster and I am with you on the fact that capitalism is awesome, but fundamentally until your party can get its head out of its tail and stops making policies that hurt people personally - I am voting for the dems.

I like me and I am ok with standing up for what I believe in; Kittens, Generosity, Independence, Princess Superheros, Curves, and Civil Rights.

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